Safety Center
Your safety is the foundation of meaningful connection. These guidelines help you protect yourself and others.
Never send money
Never send money to someone you have only met online, no matter how convincing the story. Independently verify identity and circumstances first.
Meet in public
Always meet in a public place for first physical meetings. Tell a friend or family member where you are going.
Protect your information
Do not share sensitive financial or identity information. Keep conversations on the platform until trust is established.
Don't rush off-platform
Be cautious of anyone who quickly pressures you to move to private messaging, phone or email.
Consent & boundaries
Respect every member's stated boundaries. Consent is ongoing and can be withdrawn at any time.
Block & report
Use the block and report tools freely. Reports are reviewed by admins — no automated bans, no retaliation.
Report a concern
If you encounter suspicious behavior, you can report it. We never automatically label someone a scammer based on an accusation. Every report follows a careful review process.
Possible admin outcomes: No action · Warning · Request verification · Temporary restriction · Suspension · Permanent ban. Reporters are protected from retaliation. Community votes never automatically ban a member.
Community Review
Members can request a community review of a problematic user. Other members with legitimate interaction history may confirm concerns, producing an internal risk score — but only authorized administrators make final moderation decisions. This prevents harassment, popularity contests and coordinated false reporting.